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L + T Foreva

This past weekend, my good friend L married my other good friend’s brother (and a friend), T.


The weather was perfect, the bride was gorgeous, and the groom cried. We had a slight hiccup with some dress zippers breaking, but thanks to my handy emergency kit and the MOTB’s excellent sewing skills, we made it to the church on time.

Airry and I trolleyin’ it up with Gushers, Cheez-its, and Bud Light. This was taken with a disposable camera. Did you know they still made those?

The whole thing was a whole lotta fun, but more than that, it was such a beautiful celebration of two great people, two awesome families, and mixing’ it all together! Even if you didn’t know L&T well, it would have been pretty obvious that they were greatly loved and in love.  I hope to someday be on the receiving end of something so great. Here’s to the happy couple!


Learn from my Experience

Our apartment was broken into in July. Everyone was ok, but all of our electronics and my jewelry box – including both of my grandmothers’ wedding rings – were stolen. I did have renter’s insurance, but I’ve learned a few lessons in the claims process. So to all you renters out there, I impart my hard-earned knowledge (I imagine this could also apply to homeowners, but never having owned a home or homeowners’ insurance, I really can’t say):

1) Have renter’s insurance. This is key, even if you think you live in a safe neighborhood with an alarm and a 2 ton guard dog, you could still have a fire or flood. Renter’s insurance is usually pretty cheap. Mine was $13 per month.

2) Spend the extra money on replacement coverage (which I did not). Otherwise, your insurance company will take their low-balled value of your items and subtract depreciation (probably about 30%, depending on your items).

3) If you live with someone to whom you are not married, you should each have renter’s insurance or be sure your roommate/live-in partner’s stuff is covered under your policy. Preferably, get this assurance in writing from your insurance company. Do not take your agent’s word that “they can’t technically prove whose stuff belongs to whom” for granted. Unless you really don’t care about your roommate’s possessions…

4) If you own something particularly expensive or priceless (i.e. jewelry, antiques, family heirlooms) get it appraised and specifically added to your policy.

5) Keep detailed records of everything you own that you may need to claim. Ideally, you should have:

  • Receipt
  • Picture of the item, including a picture of the serial number or other identifying information (e.g. engraving on jewelry)
  • Owner’s manual or other documentation of the item (i.e. model number, brand, etc – the receipt may not identify this)
When making a claim, you will need to provide documentation of your asset. You probably won’t need everything I listed, but the more support you have, the better. The serial numbers can also be helpful to have if the police ever find your item. Final tip on documentation:
  • Store your electronic documentation (pictures, word files with descriptions, etc.) on a cloud service – Shutterfly, google docs, facebook (you can make them private to you only). This way, if your computer gets stolen/your house burns down, you could still access your documentation.
It may seem a little paranoid, or you may feel like nothing will every happen to your stuff, but with a little preparation you will have one less thing to stress about if something bad does happen. Stay safe out there, friends!